Posted by Umm Sahl in Family Life in Islam, Youth | 14 Comments
Mothers
Hisham Al Hadi
Bismillah,
What is the big deal about mothers anyway?
Well let’s see… she carried you in her womb for nine months. Then she gave you birth which is the most painful thing ever! She stayed up for you all night. She looked after you when you were sick. She loved you endlessly. She nurtured you.
When the world turned its back on you, she was the only person there to support you. You have to do nothing to gain her love and affection because her love and affection is always there no matter what. Free of cost!
She scolds you because she loves you and wants the best for you. She is always trying to protect you and that’s why she doesn’t want you to be out late at night. That’s why she doesn’t want you to hang out with certain types of people. If you think about it, it all makes sense.
You say she doesn’t understand. Well then… MAKE HER UNDERSTAND! Talk to her and make her feel loved as well. After all she has done for you, she deserves it!
One thing you can always be sure of is that your mother will be the best friend you will ever have. She will be honest and sincere. She will not expect anything from you in return for the friendship – just your love and your smiles.
When you think you have grown up, you think you know the inside outs of life, you really don’t! That is why your mother wants to know what is happening in your life. She doesn’t mean to intrude. Rather she wants to be a part of your life… again. To be your guide, to be your mentor. Instead of telling her off, include her in your life, and trust me you will learn a lot from her! You will come to realize that you have a lot in common with your mother. From there you can start a beautiful relationship that will last a lifetime and beyond Insha’Allah!
Each of us should appreciate what we have in our mothers. They are our teachers and our role models. Every day with them is an opportunity to grow as a person. Every day away from them is a missed opportunity.
A man once asked the Prophet [saw] to whom he should show the most kindness. The Prophet replied: “Your mother, next your mother, next your mother, and then your father.” (Sunan of Abu-Dawood)
“Heaven lies beneath the feet of your mother”
Source: http://www.hishamalhadi.blogspot.com/
Umm Sahl, your sister in Islam, a wife and mother of 3 beautiful blessed babies
jazaki Allah khir akhti
Jazakallahkhair, it is a good reminder for us has mother’s and has children.
please my people in islam,i have nothing to say but may allah should guide every muslim where ever he/she is.thanks for all your topics given jazaki Allah khir akht..
It is one of the great article for every mankind. So, everybody can understand respect of mother.. thanks are we prepared….
Awesome Mashallah 🙂
Beautiful article, Masha Allah. How big is the role of mothers in our life….
a great reminder for everyone.may the almighty reward you.[quote][/quote]
Jazak Allah khair!
Can a child repay Her?
Let every one take care of her mother,still the service rendered by her is supreme.
jazaki Allah khir..
The mother is a school: if you prepare her properly, you will prepare an entire people of good character.
The mother is the first teacher, foremost among them, and the best of teachers
I really love my mum.i can remember how she took care of me,i cannot pay her for what she has done for me.May Allah reward her abundantly.AMEEEEEEN.
I love my mum, she’s awesome and the best!
This is realy awesome and inspiring article! Jazakumullahu khairan
may God forgive our parents,have mercy on them and grant them paradise.ameeen. my mother is my bestfriend and my monitor
Bismillah,
in the name of Allah, i will never ends my thanks to Him for giving a mom that inimitable, she she has nothing to compare with like every mother since every mother is inique…even though they are still christian i never lose hope that Allah subhana wa’tala would give Her hidayath with my father and my sibling…please includes from your prayers my dear brothers ansd sister that Allah will give guindance InshaAllah…
Never ending regards
abdurafeeq(raffy)